Winter Peach Photography: December 2024

I know, I know I've used this title before, but it still stands. I'm studiously ignoring the consumer madness of Black Friday. It's not even confined to one day anymore; it rumbles on until Christmas and beyond, with people scooping up yet more home decor and fast fashion, the latter doubtless coming to a charity shop near you in February, stocking fillers no one wants and electrical gadgets that will stay in their drawers, unloved and unused for the remainder of time.

I qualify this by adding that I have purchased items in sales in the past, so I get the temptation. However, I've also shopped second hand since my teenage years and it didn't take me long to learn that the thrill of a good quality second hand find (an item that may have commanded £££ new - not to mention discovering something that no one else will be wearing), is a) way more of a rush and b) a little more responsible.

I rarely visit high street stores these days and when I do, I'm shocked at the mountains of mass produced discounted clothing that will very soon be added to the real clothes mountain in a Chilean desert. Do you know that this is growing by 39,000 tonnes per year? Our addiction to fast fashion is now visible from space.

Image: Skyfi

So, my wardrobe, or clothing rail, is pretty small. I try to keep it that way to maintain balance and perspective. I love clothes, but also have an ongoing internal dialogue about them. Fashion is fun but also superficial.

I dress for myself and mood and practicality very much dictate what I wear. If I'm going on a 10 mile hike for example, I want to be comfortable. I'm going to wear trousers thick enough to withstand the brambles I'll have to contend with, boots that won't rub my feet and are mud proof and a coat that is waterproof. If they happen to look good together, it's a bonus, but if those practical outfits don't always express who I am at my core, I'm at peace with that. There's always time to dress up. In stark contrast, on another random Tuesday, I may well be found wearing a flowing kaftan or some crazy patterned vintage maxi skirt for a working day indoors when I don't see another soul outside of my family.

I have friends who adore putting together an outfit and friends who are more about other forms of creative expression and couldn't care less what I'm wearing; they just want to hang out. It's all about balance. Everything we buy, whether or not it's thoughtfully produced, will, in all likelihood, one day end up in on a mountain in a desert in Chile - and I try to keep that in mind.

So my recent second hand purchases are items that suit my style, are variously vintage and/or of great quality and will stay with me for the duration.

1. Wrangler Leather Cowboy boots; timeless coolness.

2. Monsoon Embroidered Tabard. This livens up a pair of jeans and works well belted over a roll neck and maxi skirt.

3. Breton Top

Classic black and white Breton with scalloped bib in the thickest cotton by Joanie.

3. Vintage Welsh Wool Waistcoat...

...teamed here with vintage velvet. Never mind Black Friday, it's vintage brown vibes here.

In other news, I've been listening to a lot of podcasts this year. I'm late to the party, but there are some corkers. I confess, they've slightly overtaken books for me this year. I quite like drifting off to sleep at night with a familiar voice in my ear.

Here are some recommendations:

1. Miss Me?

Singer/actress Lily Allen and her childhood friend, Broadcaster Miquita Oliver, discuss an agreed topic. It's an entertaining listen; funny, poignant, thought provoking and outrageous in equal measures and the two communicate in an honest, authentic way that only the oldest friends can. I swear they forget that the world is listening.

2. Uncanny

My friend Sarah and I were discussing this at length in the pub on Friday night. It's all about people's paranormal experiences but is very balanced, with input from sceptics and a team of researchers on each and every case. Trust me when I say that many of the stories are hair raising and quite often it's the sceptics' rational explanations that seem the most implausible.

3. Where There's a Will There's a Wake.

London actress and comedian Kathy Burke invites a new celebrity guest each week to plan their perfect death from last supper to funeral arrangements and who gets what. I recently listened to the Danny Dyer episode. Danny Dyer is a foul mouthed cockney actor, who can also be incredibly funny. He was very clear in his instructions which was to be buried "stark b*!!**k naked, but for a pair of pink cowboy boots."

So here's a question for you. What would you like to be buried in?

Last week, we also caught the opening night of Fontaines DC's UK Romance Tour in Wolverhampton. If you're unfamiliar with the band, they are an Irish post punk band formed in Dublin in 2014. Grian Chatten, the lead singer, is a poet and in my humble opinion, Shane MacGowan's natural successor. He's a different character to Shane, but an amazing lyricist. We feel lucky to have seen them at Wolverhampton Civic, a relatively intimate venue. Their next tour, I suspect, will be an arena tour.

Here he is in action; a darkly poetic soul.

Talking of darkly poetic, I'll leave you with my latest photos from the garden. I'll probably be loitering here for a while, given that our car is now a write off thanks to a disagreement with a service station pothole close to Manchester. See you soon!